Rugby PitchsideCoaching help for U9–U13
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BehaviourSession

They lose focus and mess about

Long queues, chatter while you're talking, play fights between drills

Why it happens

What to say

✓ Say this

  • “Three things, then go.”
  • “Show me, don't tell me.”
  • “Great focus from this group! Let's go up a level.”
  • Use their names when you need their attention.

✗ Not this

  • Long speeches in the middle of the pitch.
  • Running laps as a punishment.
  • “Right, nobody's having fun until you listen.”
  • Shouting at the whole group because of one or two players.

The drill ladder

Move a group up a level only when they hit the "ready for next level" sign. It's fine for groups to be on different levels.

CGreen · amber · red
Level 15 minWhole squadCones, a ball eachNo contactU9 · U10 · U11

Traffic lights

How it works

  1. Players jog around a square with a ball.
  2. The coach calls “green” (jog), “amber” (walk) or “red” (stop and hold the ball still).
  3. Add more calls once they've got it: “purple” (pass to the nearest player), “blue” (put the ball down and touch your toes).

Coaching points

  • It's a game, but it practises your stop signal.
  • Use the same stop call you use in every session.
  • Reward the fastest stops.

Ready for the next level when: Every player stops on “red” within a second.

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COnly move on “Coach says”
Level 24 minWhole squadA ball eachNo contactU9 · U10 · U11

Coach says

How it works

  1. Like “Simon says”. Players only follow an instruction if it starts with “Coach says”.
  2. Use rugby moves: “Coach says hands up for a catch”, “Coach says ball in two hands”, “Coach says get low”.
  3. Anyone who moves without “Coach says” does 3 ball taps, then carries on. Nobody is out.

Coaching points

  • Short, sharp instructions.
  • Nobody sits out. Keep everyone playing.
  • Finish with the stop signal you use in sessions.

Ready for the next level when: Players respond to calls quickly and stay focused for the whole game.

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1234 minutes, then rotate
Level 312 minWhole squad in groups of 4–6Cones, balls, bibsNo contactU9 · U10 · U11

Small-group stations

How it works

  1. Split the squad into small groups and set up 3 stations, each with a simple drill they already know.
  2. Each group spends 4 minutes at a station, then rotates. A parent helper or senior player can run a station.
  3. Everybody is busy all the time. No queues.

Coaching points

  • Pick drills they already know, so you're not explaining three things at once.
  • Rotate on a clear signal.
  • Groups of 4–6 so nobody waits.

Ready for the next level when: Groups rotate quickly and stay busy at each station without being chased.

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ENENE = experienced · N = new
Level 46 minWhole squad in pairs (one experienced, one new)Cones, bibs, a few ballsNo contactU9 · U10 · U11

Buddy tag

How it works

  1. Pairs of one experienced and one new player. Two or three pairs are taggers.
  2. Players with a ball can't be tagged. Pairs pass the ball between them to keep each other safe.
  3. Swap taggers every minute. Experienced players must call their buddy's name before every pass.

Coaching points

  • The experienced player's job is to make their buddy look good.
  • Lots of short passes, eyes up.
  • Keep it moving and fun. No standing around explaining.

Ready for the next level when: New players are calling for the ball and passing back without help.

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Plan to stay busy

Common coaching mistakes

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